Post by Mike Ewing
In today’s work environment we are often faced with differing points of view which may lead to conflict which can derail our ability to get things done and work together effectively.
Wikipedia defines “Conflict resolution is conceptualized as the methods and processes involved in facilitating the peaceful ending of conflict and retribution. Committed group members attempt to resolve group conflicts by actively communicating information about their conflicting motives or ideologies to the rest of the group (e.g., intentions; reasons for holding certain beliefs) and by engaging in collective negotiation.”
Some people seem to be able to say the right thing no matter what the situation or choose the right medium for their message.
Simply stated, conflict management is the process of limiting the negative aspects of conflict while increasing the positive aspects of conflict. The question therefore becomes how do we convert negative energy into positive energy? It starts with effective communication.
Anytime communication takes place there is an opportunity for conflict to arise. In the workplace this is most often due to misunderstandings and/or a lack of information. In either case, providing an opportunity for discussion and questions can go a long way to mitigate conflict before it rears its head. During these discussions, discovering the source of the conflict is key as this will determine how to move forward to turn the negative conflict into a positive opportunity.
Taking this a step further, creating psychological safety will enable you to receive the feedback and questions you need to determine the true source of conflict. Creating a safe environment for discussion will also provide you with a solid foundation for achieving a positive outcome.
When dealing with conflict it is also important to remember to listen. There will be times that simply listening to concerns will be the positive outcome you are looking to achieve, in other situations listening will be one of the steps which needs to be taken towards achieving a positive outcome.
For the situations that require you to go beyond listening, we recommend investigating the conflict from different perspectives. An important element to remember at this stage is to keep your own bias in check so that you can be as objective as possible in reviewing and understanding the source of the conflict.
Once your investigation is complete determine whether there is an option for a common goal and how that might be achieved. This step may require further discussions therefore it’s important to continue to create a safe environment for all parties involved.
If a consensus can be achieved for a common goal that’s fantastic. However, this is not always possible and you may need to work towards gaining a commitment to the goal simply because at this time it is the best option to support the overall vision, mission and/or strategy. In this instance, shift the focus to where there is the greatest unity.
Lastly, remain diligent in monitoring the progress of the goal and/or resolution and learn from the experience. Conflict Management is a skill set that we can, and should, be constantly improving because this will help us in both our professional and personal relationships.
We will delve into this topic more deeply at our webinar on October 20th @ 12:15pm, covering topics such as effective communication, including building personal credibility, delivering positive and negative messages, improving active listening skills, rephrasing for better relationships, dealing with difficult people, handling negative situations, and constructively resolving conflicts and problem solving.
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